April's Nutshell of Thoughts

Our Honeymoon Trip...

2006-10-29T18:26:00.000-08:00

Well, I can honestly say that I'm still feeling the back and forth motion of being on a ship...2 1/2 days after debarking the cruise ship. We had so much fun. Last Saturday Brian's dad picked us up from the airport and then let us use his car. We hit one of the restaurants we wanted to eat at, then went to the hotel, which was a complete s***hole.

Sunday we went to Disneyland, it was hot but we had a good time. Afterwards we went over to Neal and Cathy's for a visit, and also saw Tracy there. It was great seeing everyone again. Later that evening we went to the Block at Orange for dinner, which was about the time I started feeling sick. It figures, on our big trip, I end up with the flu.

Monday we boarded the cruise ship. I was still feeling like crap but was trying my damndest to make the most of it. We took it easy Monday evening, had a nice dinner and just relaxed.

Tuesday the ship docked in San Diego. We didn't get off the ship, I was still really weak, and couldn't keep any food down. We just walked around the ship, played some ping pong for a short while, and napped. One thing I can say...Thank God for Pepto Bismol. We went to the infirmary and got some, and that seemed to be the turning point for me. Dinner went great and I started feeling much better.

Wednesday we were in Catalina Island. It was beautiful. We just walked around and did some shopping, and took pictures. I hope to go back there again someday for a visit, it was very relaxing. Later that afternoon on the ship, my wonderful turd of a husband gets lured into entering the men's belly flop competition on the ship at the pool...which he won. We had to buy the DVD from the cruise to have that moment...it was friggin hilarious. They got to do one jump...then before the second one they made them get on the platform when it was their turn and dance to music. The phrase 'white men can't dance' came to mind each time the guys got up there, except for Brian. All the people around me kept saying he was the best dancer, which was the truth. It was great.

Thursday was spent in Ensenada, Mexico...NOT impressed at all. We took a shuttle into town, and they drop you off about a block from where all the shops are. Problem is, you have to cross a major intersection to get to this area, and they have no stop lights, only stop signs, and if drivers feel like stopping they will. Needless to say, I refused to cross it because I cherish my life too much, so we walked back to the ship and did some shopping at a little marketplace of shops by the ship. I didn't like Ensenada at all, it was dirty and frankly not much of anything to see.

We returned to L.A. Friday morning, then spent some more time with Brian's dad. Later in the afternoon we surprised the kids with a quick visit, they were ecstatic. In the evening we had dinner with Tracy, then went over to Neal and Cathy's to visit and play pool...we had a blast. Yesterday morning we spent some more time with Brian's dad then he took us to the airport. All in all, it was a wonderful trip, we loved the cruise, and can't wait to take another one next year.

It's good to be back home, and I have great memories from an awesome trip with the love of my life.

That's it, in a nutshell...

Vegas Update and Other Trips...

2006-08-29T18:28:00.000-07:00

Well, Vegas was fun, although not near as much fun without Brian. My cousin and I had fun, we hit several casinos and played bingo (yes, bingo, with all the little old battle axes who kept winning). I saw Phantom of the Opera at the Venetian, EXCELLENT show. I had never seen it before so that was a real treat. I would definitely go see it again. Friday night we went to the House of Blues for a bit. We didn't stay long because my cousin has a bad back, and they have no place to sit...let me rephrase that. They have tables by the dance floor, however in order to reserve one, you have to purchase a bottle of liquor from a list, and the cheapest bottle was $175. BS.

Brian and I are taking our "honeymoon" the last week of October. We're flying to L.A., spend some time with his dad and the kids, and then we're taking a 4 day cruise from there. I can't wait, this will be my 5th cruise and Brian's 1st, so it should be a fun adventure for him.

Other than that, the job is going well, we're starting a bible study class at church, our fall bowling league starts up next weekend, and the church volleyball league should be starting up in the next few weeks as well, so we're plenty busy.

My best friend is in the Army reserves and is in North Carolina right now. She's coming back home this weekend so we're going to spend some time with her. The way it looks, she's going to be deployed overseas right after her time in N.C., probably to Iraq. I'm really upset about it and only can pray like mad for her safety. Please keep her and all the other troops in her thoughts.

Hope all is well...keep in touch (sorry I haven't been around much lately).

That's it, in a nutshell...

Vegas here I come!!

2006-08-22T14:29:00.000-07:00

I'm heading out of here tomorrow afternoon for Sin City...can't wait to party down!!!

Hope everyone has a wonderful weekend and I'll post when I get back!! WOO HOO!!!!!

That's it, in a nutshell...

Busy Busy Days...

2006-07-30T13:58:00.000-07:00

Hope everyone is doing well, sorry I haven't been around lately but I have read blogs, just haven't had much chance to respond to them.

We had the kids here for a visit for 2 weeks, they left this last Tuesday. It was a great time, and they didn't want to go. They've made it very clear that they want to live here and we'd love to have them here, it's just a matter of the legal costs to fight for custody. They'd do so much better here, it's a better environment for them and unlike with their "mother", they'd get the right kind of attention here. While they were here we took them down to Branson, MO, to Silver Dollar City, Oceans of Fun here in KC, shopping (of course!) and a variety of other things. We're planning to bring them back here for Christmas and New Years so we're all looking forward to that.

Anyway, just working hard, playing volleyball, bowling and trying to swim when we can. Brian had knee surgery 2 weeks ago and he's slowly but surely doing better and working his way completely off the crutches. He'll be glad to be able to bowl again. He's also going to be playing in the praise band at our church, playing bass guitar and probably drums as well, so I can't wait to watch him playing up there *drool*

Hope everyone is doing well...here's a couple pics from their visit...

Me with the turkeys...

Dad and the turkeys...

Me and Ashlynn on the Powder Keg at Silver Dollar City...

This one was taken in Marvel Cave at Silver Dollar City...

That's it, in a nutshell...

Got our tickets for the DL show in KC...

2006-06-19T09:09:00.000-07:00

We decided to splurge on the tickets for the DL show here in September. We got 4th row with VIP passes to I guess what's an air conditioned area, where they serve food and beverage (at your cost, of course). I guess normally the only way you can get the passes is if you're a season ticket holder at the ampitheatre, which to me isn't worth it because they seem to only have 4 out of 15 good shows a year. Anyway, I'm looking forward to the show, should be a good time. We have our tickets for Sammy Hagar on July 16th, and we have 14th row for Poison/Cinderella on July 22nd. I'm SO ready for concert season...I swear I'm going through withdrawal LOL

I know most people have been reading Brian's bulletins on My Space about his dad's lung cancer surgery. I just want to thank everyone for their thoughts and prayers. It's been really hard on Brian but he's handling it like a trooper. His dad still has his great upbeat attitude, and he seems to be making those baby steps in the right direction. It was a very tough surgery for an 80 year old man to go through, but I think he handled it better than a lot of people my age would have. I'll be so happy to see him back home and well on the road to recovery.

We've started looking at apartments for my mom, to get her moved here to KC. I really hope that happens soon, we need to get her out of that cess pool they call Topeka. Hopefully by the end of the summer she'll be moved.

We're flying the kids back on July 11th for 2 weeks, they're really excited. I think it'll be fun (but if I post a picture of me bald, you'll know why LOL)

Anyway, not too much else...hope everyone had a great weekend.

That's it, in a nutshell...

Some More Pics From Our Day...

2006-06-08T06:32:00.000-07:00

Me and my cousin just before the ceremony (my maid of honor)...
Exchanging rings with my Thong Boy...

Smash face!!!...

Our first dance...

A few pictures to start...

2006-05-30T07:33:00.000-07:00

I'll post more later, once I get the pictures back from all the disposable cameras at the reception, but here's a few to start:

The happy couple, right after the ceremony...

Brian and his son, Matthew

Party time... (the little girl there is my stepdaughter)

My family...the picture is a little fuzzy (my stepdaughter is the one in the dress, and my stepson is the other shrimp in the front) :)

This time, it was real...

2006-05-22T10:17:00.000-07:00

There are no words to describe the beautiful, phenomenal weekend we had. There was not a single hitch, nothing went wrong, it was the perfect wedding any bride could ask for. I'm having a hard time putting into words my feelings, because it's so overwhelmingly wonderful.

Friday was a busy day...Mom and I finished fixing the foods for the reception in the morning (deviled eggs, cheese ball, mini cheesecakes, Mexican dip). Then at noon, Brian and I went and picked up the rental SUV for the weekend. 2:00 - picked up the cake flowers and cake table petals from the florist. 3:30 - Mom, Valerie and I had our manicures at the salon, and had a great time chatting with our nail techs. Brian headed to the airport to pick up his dad and the kids. They were so excited to be here, and luckily they had a great flight. It was the first time the kids had ever flown...Ashlynn got an upset tummy from the flight but otherwise she enjoyed it. 7:00 - We had rehearsal at the church. I felt sorry for our pastor, my family tends to get a bit "unfocused" at times, but he held it together really well. We decorated the church, simple yet beautiful, meaningful and nostalgic.

THEN came the "bachelorette party". 8 of us went to our favorite club, Funkytown and were out until 1:30am. My cousin made me wear a penis lei, a penis candy necklace, and a sticker right in the middle of my shirt. We had so many laughs, great conversation, fun dancing, and a blast sipping our drinks from the penis straws she bought (hee hee). I made the mistake of drinking a rum and coke and a shot...I ended up getting a little sick from it, but not too bad. My hotel room was a nightmare, the A/C didn't work in my room so I roasted all night, which didn't help my stomach feel any better. Oh well.

Saturday - Mom and I checked out of the hotel and grabbed something to eat, then back to the apartment to swap cars and pick up Ashlynn. We went over to the reception hall, and between the 3 of us, it took us 1 1/2 hours to decorate and get things set out. Ashlynn was amazing, she is very creative and did a lot of the decorating with little direction from me. She had a blast helping and it was great to see that. One of the ladies at the hall made a comment to her, and she told the lady, "yeah, my dad and April are getting married today and she's my stepmom, YAY!" I had to step away so I didn't start crying. After we finished we grabbed some lunch, went back to the apartment to get our dresses, then to the salon to get our hair and makeup done. OMG, Ashlynn looked like a princess, she was just beautiful. They did an amazing job with her hair. And my mom looked beautiful, she looked so much like my grandma it was almost scary.

After our appts, we headed to the church to get ready. It was a nice, relaxing time with my mom, Ashlynn and my cousins before the ceremony. Once it was time for the ceremony though, the butterflies went crazy. You would have thought that I would have been calm since I'd been through it before, but this time I was more nervous, and I think it was just because everything was finally coming together, as it should be. My mom and his dad lit the memorial candles we had on the altar for Brian's mom and my grandparents...it was a very special touch. Then I walked down the aisle to my dream come true. He was so handsome, as was my stepson, it was almost too much. As we were standing there I could feel my grandparents and his mom with us, and they were so happy. The warmth and love in that room was unbelievable.

We spoke our own vows. Brian started speaking his, and broke down crying, which made me and the entire congregation cry. Then I spoke mine, got a little teary which made Brian cry as well. What we spoke was off the cuff, nothing we had written prior, just what we felt at that moment. The kids lit the unity candle with us, then we gave each of them a family medallion. Matthew almost broke down right then.

The reception was a blast. The food was a hit, Brian and I smashed cake in each other's faces and up the nose, and we had our first dance to "When I Look Into Your Eyes" by Firehouse. Brian's 79 year old dad cut a rug and had a wonderful time. My mom's friend who's known me since birth and her husband were there, and it was their 5 year anniversary that day, so we dedicated a song to them. Turns out that was truly their first dance as husband and wife, so it was beautiful. We had so much fun that night, dancing, talking with all of our guests...it was truly a magical day.

We spent yesterday with his dad and the kids...the kids went swimming, and we just relaxed together and enjoyed each other's company. Today was rough, taking them to the airport and saying goodbye. We plan to have the kids back here this summer for 2-3 weeks, and his dad is actually talking about moving back here, which would just be great.

Anyway, I know this is a long post, but it doesn't even begin to explain how wonderful our weekend was, and how truly blessed the wedding was. There's not a luckier woman in the world than me...I was blessed with the greatest guy anybody could ask for, the best stepkids in the world, and a father in law who always manages to keep me laughing. They're all sweethearts and I thank God every day for that.

That's it, in a nutshell...

Update on Dad...

2006-05-17T09:44:00.000-07:00

Brian just talked with his dad and his doctor. Basically they were concerned that the cancer had spread to his adrenal glands. The PET scan showed that it has NOT spread there, so they believe that they're basically dealing with the nodule on the lung. The doctor said the upflow of the scan was inconclusive, not exactly sure what that means. So when he goes in for his appointment next week, they're going to discuss 2 options: surgery to completely remove the nodule, or needle biopsy and chemo. Their concern with the surgery is whether his heart could withstand such a major procedure. Although he's in great health and very active, he has had some heart trouble. So we'll find out more next week on what they will do.

In the meantime, it has put our minds at ease more, and his dad and the doctor are very optimistic. Like the doctor said, he's not a typical 79 year old...he's very outgoing, physically active, and in otherwise good health. So now we can look forward to our weekend, and partying with his dad...can't wait :)

That's it, in a nutshell...

Still waiting for more news on Dad...

2006-05-10T09:38:00.000-07:00

Brian's dad is having a PET scan this Friday to find out whether the cancer has spread. If it's confined to the lesion in the lung, they're talking about possibly doing a needle biopsy to remove it. He's not a good surgery candidate so this would be the best route for him. If it has spread, I'm not sure what the next steps will be, chemo, radiation, etc. Hopefully we'll have the results from this scan early to mid next week.

Brian is doing well, it's been hard for all of us but he's a trooper. We're just taking things one day at a time and enjoying the moment for now.

I apologize that I haven't been around much or posted on your blogs, I read them when I can, but it's been busy and there's just been a lot on our minds with his dad, the wedding, and other private matters I don't want to get into. Just know that I'm thinking of all of you and we really appreciate your well wishes for everything. I promise that I'll post on your sites soon, just give me a little time :)

Have a great week...

That's it, in a nutshell...

Please keep Brian's dad in your prayers...

2006-05-04T19:37:00.000-07:00

Brian received a call from his dad today. He went to the doctor for a follow up on a scope he had done in his lungs a couple weeks ago, and they're 99.9% certain he has cancer. He has to go tomorrow to talk to the oncologist, who will give him more detailed information and discuss possible treatment options. What we do know is that they won't operate on him, because of his heart condition and his age. He's always been in perfect health, so this has come as a big shock, and Brian is taking it hard.

His dad has a wonderful outlook, basically saying what will be will be, and we will take things one day at a time. In the meantime, he has a life to live, and I know that he will live it to the fullest, as he always has.

I'm so thankful that his dad is able to come for the wedding in 2 weeks. It is going to be an extra special event, and thankfully the doctors cleared him to travel, said it wouldn't be a problem. We're very happy for this reunion and the chance to share such a special occasion with him.

Please keep Dad in your prayers, as well as Brian. He can use the positive thoughts right now as we begin this journey.

That's it, in a nutshell...

My bridal shower...

2006-04-24T14:05:00.000-07:00

Saturday my mom and cousin threw me a bridal shower. OMG, I had SO much fun, I'm still giggling over it. It was a Pampered Chef bridal shower, so it was perfect because Brian and I both love to cook. One of the highlights was the toilet paper game, where they split into groups and used both Brian and I as models for them to create a wedding dress made out of toilet paper. I was laughing so hard my sides hurt. When they were finished, Brian looked like a Quaker wearing an apron LMAO...but he was a great sport. It was just wonderful having everyone together like that and just having fun.

I had my practice run through hair and makeup appointment before the shower, and the hairstyle I decided on is completely different from what I had originally thought about. I'm really happy with it though, I think it'll work really well with the dress and all.

Through the fun and happiness of the day, I did get some unhappy news. My best friend since 6th grade is in the Army reserves, and when her mom got there, she told me that she is going to be deployed overseas in 2007...probably to Iraq or Afghanistan. It just made me sick to my stomach to hear this. I'd like to go to Washington and wring somebody's neck...I'm going to pray like mad that somehow, something comes up to where she doesn't have to go... :(

Anyway, that's it for now...have a great week.

That's it, in a nutshell...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY THONG BOY!!!

2006-04-11T14:07:00.000-07:00

My stud is 37 years OLD today!!! HEE HEE But he looks just as yummy as the first day I met him...*looking for towel*

OK, 38 days left to go...almost there. Still waiting on RSVPs from people, so hopefully those will continue to filter in over the next 2-3 weeks.

I think we figured out what we're going to do for our trip/honeymoon. We're probably going to fly out to Vegas, hit the Vegas DL show and stay there for 4-5 nights. If we have time I may try and convince Brian to make a trip into L.A. We'll have to see how timing goes with everything. Can't wait!

Hope everyone is having a great week.

That's it, in a nutshell...

45 days and counting...

2006-04-04T13:47:00.000-07:00

It's hard to believe it's coming up so quick...and I'm stressing more. I'm trying to enjoy the moment as much as I can, definitely more so than the other time around. We bought the plane tickets for Brian's dad and the twins, and the twins are really excited. This will be their first time flying so it should be fun for them (that and they'll be traveling with their grandpa). It's going to be a good party time.

Well, I saw the DL dates, unfortunately they're not coming to KC, the closest is St. Louis. We're actually looking into going either to the Vegas show, or maybe to Irvine. If we do Irvine, we're going to try and take a 4 day cruise out of L.A. that following Monday, sort of do the concert/honeymoon all in one trip. We'll have to see what happens between now and then.

My shoulder is healing nicely...still pretty sore but I'm starting to get some more range of motion in it. There was a small rotator cuff tear that they were able to shave down, and there was quite a bit of fluid that they had to drain. A couple weeks and I'll be ready to go with volleyball and everything...WOO HOO!!!

That's it, in a nutshell...

Wish me luck!

2006-03-31T05:51:00.000-08:00

I'm having surgery on my shoulder today...yippee (NOT)

Counting down the days...

2006-03-26T11:17:00.000-08:00

My how time flies by when you need more of it to get things done. I can't believe it's only about 8 weeks until the wedding, and I told myself when we first started planning this that I wasn't going to get stressed out. *yeah, ok*. I'm not as bad as I thought I would be, but now that it's getting down to the wire, I'm starting to get nervous.

I hope everyone got their invitations, and thank you to Jen (SavageFem) and Julia (defleppardlover) for sending me the RSVPs with the thumbs up that you'll be there. I can't wait to see ya'll!! For those who can't make it, I'll miss you and am totally bummed, but hopefully we can get together at some point this summer when DL hits the road.

The wedding should be fun, plenty of food, alcohol, and dancing. *bet ya can't guess what kind of music my wish list consists of* :)

Anyway, not too much else going on here. We're looking to join a bowling league in May, and yesterday we went and played a couple games. I haven't played on any kind of regular basis for probably 15+ years, so I knew my games would suck. My first game I bowled an 88 (eek), my second game I came back with a 145. And no, we won't discuss Brian's score, he's an excellent bowler and will always kick my butt.

Have a great week, don't work too hard.

That's it, in a nutshell...

Frustrating week

2006-03-21T09:20:00.000-08:00

As Brian and I walked out the door yesterday morning to the unwelcome sight of frigid cold, high wind and rain/sleet mix, I looked at him and said, "I think I'm going to go crawl back in bed."

Prophetic words...

As I reluctantly trudged to the car, Brian dropped the key. No big deal. He presses the button to unlock the car, it doesn't unlock. OK, probably because he dropped it and it got wet...no big deal. He unlocks the car manually and we get in, preparing for our day. He puts the key in the ignition, turns it to on, all the dashboard lights come on as normal. He turns it to start, nothing. No sputter, no cough, just dead air. However, all the lights are working fine, as is the A/C system and power windows. WTF?? The only problem is that the radio isn't working and the car is completely dead. Sh!t.

We just bought the car last summer, it's a 2004 with low miles and has been great. We drove it all weekend, with absolutely no indications of any problems. Now this. So I call for a tow truck and they tell me they'll be here in 45 minutes. An hour and a half later they arrive, so Brian goes with him to the auto shop. The auto shop prepares to run a diagnostic on the car, when they realize, hey, your car is still under factory warranty. DOH! *smacking forehead* So as we do a happy dance now that we know this problem is covered, they tow it to the car dealership that works on our brand of car.

Fast forward to late yesterday afternoon. The repair shop still hasn't had a chance to take a look at the car, but they did inform us that we're entitled to a free rental car since it's under warranty. HALLELUJAH!!! So we race to the rental shop after work and get a loaner car.

It's now 11:30 and we're still waiting to hear something on the car. I just want my damn car back already. Calgon, take me away....

On to happier notes...my friend still hasn't popped the baby out, so they're inducing her tomorrow morning. I told her that's perfect, she'll arrive just in time for her first NCAA sweet 16 tournament (yes, we're all big college hoops fans). :)

Still working away on the wedding...I'm really going to miss those of you who said you couldn't make it, but hopefully we can hook up soon. As far as certain other aspects of the wedding (bridal party), well, that'll take another blog... >:(

That's it, in a nutshell...

I'm going to be an "aunt" soon...

2006-03-14T10:19:00.000-08:00

OK, well not in the truest sense of the word. My best friend's sister, who I've also been friends with since high school, is expecting her first little bundle of "terror". She was due on the 4th but the little turkey is working her hardest to make her mom's life miserable. I just found out that they're delivering her Friday (unless she decides to make an appearance before that of course). I can't wait...I'll be her distant "adopted" aunt. Gotta love the spoiling part MWAHAHAHAHA

Next set of invitations should be going out either this weekend or sometime next week. I'm still finishing off the invitation list and hopefully haven't forgotten anyone. For those who I don't have a mailing address for, I'll be sending an e-invite to your email. I know a couple of my "evil divas" from the Pyro boards are coming, and I can't wait to see them so that we can cause as much mayhem as possible. >:)

Hope the week is going well...I'm ready for the weekend.

Here's a funny Brian sent me...enjoy!

Ray & Bessie

An elderly couple, Ray and Bessie, are "snowbirds" in Texas. Ray had always wanted a pair of authentic cowboy boots. Seeing some on sale one day, he buys them, and wears them home walking proudly.

He walks into the house and says to his wife, "Notice anything different about me?"

Bessie looks him over, "Nope."

Frustrated, Ray storms off into the bathroom, undresses, and walks back into the room completely naked except the cowboy boots. Again, he asks, a little louder this time, "Notice anything DIFFERENT NOW!"

Bessie looks up and says, "Ray, what's different? It's hanging down today, it was hanging down yesterday, and it'll be hanging down again tomorrow."

Furious, Ray yells, "AND DO YOU KNOW WHY IT IS HANGING DOWN, BESSIE? IT'S HANGING DOWN BECAUSE IT'S LOOKING AT MY NEW BOOTS!!!!!"

To which Bessie replies, "Shoulda bought a hat, Ray. Shoulda bought a hat."

That's it, in a nutshell...

First set of invitations going out this week...

2006-03-06T10:40:00.000-08:00

OK, I'll admit, I'm blonde. First of all, when you receive the wedding invitations and don't have an RSVP card, that's my first blonde moment. Second, if you do have an RSVP card, you'll notice that I neglected to put a stamp on the RSVP envelope...second blonde moment. So if you didn't receive a card or did without the stamp, I apologize. If you'd like you can just shoot me a RSVP response to my email, or send me a message on My Space. Just call me Space Cadet *rolling eyes*

Hope everyone had a wonderful weekend. Ours was nice, not too busy but quite relaxing for a change. I'm looking forward to March 28th, Brian and I are going to the WWE Smackdown taping here in KC (yes, he's a bad influence). I used to hate wrestling, now I'm loving the entertainment value of it *not to mention John Cena is pretty darn hot* ;)

Have a great week and don't work too hard...

That's it, in a nutshell...

Just a quick hello...

2006-02-18T18:34:00.000-08:00

I had written a post the other day, but my damn computer at work pulled a little stunt and I lost it >:( So I'll just post a quick note.

Work is going well for both of us, Brian especially is loving it. Last week his company had their annual convention here in KC and he was asked to give a presentation (about 450 people in attendance for this). Of course, being the ham that he is and great public speaker, he did it. They asked him to come back the next day to give another presentation but we already had plans. Needless to say, his presentation skills didn't go unnoticed by executives and his clients he works with on a daily basis. I'm so proud of him.

I had an MRI on my shoulder Thursday, hopefully I'll get the results on that by Monday. The waiting is the worst part...

Our trip to California was awesome. We had a great time with the kids, his dad, and the Pump show (Tal, I gave Dino a hug for ya!). I can't wait to go back. The kids are so excited to be coming back here in May for the wedding; they've never flown before so it's going to be quite an experience for them.

Wedding plans are still coming along nicely, I go for my first dress fitting Thursday. We got the tuxedos picked out last weekend, and today we finally bought a video camera. Now we just have to find somebody who will work the video camera for us at the wedding...

Hope everyone is doing well. Tal, did you get snowed in with that horrid storm? Patty, you're still in my thoughts with your upcoming move. Kim, I'm praying for you and that everything settles down for you. To everyone else, you're always in my thoughts.

Have a great weekend.

That's it, in a nutshell...

Great CA trip, wedding plans moving right along...

2006-02-13T13:39:00.000-08:00

We had a wonderful trip to California, it was great seeing his dad, the kids and our friends. Friday when we got there we surprised the kids (they didn't know we were coming), and went to dinner with them and his dad. Saturday we took the kids to Balboa Pier in Newport Beach, played games, let them do bumper cars, etc, then took them to lunch. It was a lot of fun.

Saturday night we went to dinner with a bunch of friends, then saw Pump play at Martini Blues in Huntington Beach. It was an AWESOME show...and Tal, I hugged Dino for you just as promised :) It was great catching up with everyone and reliving the days of our tribute band going concerts.

Sunday we spent the morning with his dad, went to a local joint for brunch, and then it was time to head back to the airport. A whirlwind weekend, but so much fun. I can't wait to go back again soon.

The wedding plans are coming along well. Saturday Brian picked out the tuxes and got measured for his. We've been picking things off one by one. FYI, we'll probably be sending out the invitations the first week of March, especially for the out of towners, so be on the lookout.

That's it, in a nutshell...

Can't wait for the weekend...

2006-01-31T17:57:00.000-08:00

Sorry I haven't been around much lately, life has been pretty busy around here. This Friday is when we head to California, and we're excited. I'm looking forward to seeing his dad, the kids, and our friends *and of course the Pump show...Tal, you bet I'll give Dino a hug for ya!* :)

Work is going good, been keeping pretty busy. Brian is real busy at work but he's enjoying it a lot. School started for him last week so he's trying to get back into the swing of things again. We're playing volleyball through the church again...and once again I injured myself. This time it's my shoulder. I haven't had full range of motion in my shoulder and it's been pretty sore. I go back to the doctor next Monday and we'll see what happens. I'm just hoping I didn't tear the rotator cuff. Guess I need to find a new sport, huh?

Wedding planning is coming along well. We met with the florist last night and got everything squared away for that. I also got the bridesmaid dresses ordered, so slowly but surely I'm knocking things off my list. Now we just have to figure out where we're finally taking our honeymoon trip to.

Hope everyone is doing well. I'll try to do a better job of keeping up to date here...

That's it, in a nutshell...

Happy Monday

2006-01-16T11:48:00.000-08:00

We found out about a week ago that they were giving us today off as a holiday, so I'm vegging at home today. Yesterday we went to the bridal salon and picked out the bridesmaid dresses. One more thing to knock off my never ending list. The invitations have been ordered and we'll be sending those out around the end of February/first of March, so look for more clutter in your mailbox. Not much else going on, Brian and I had a nice day out Saturday. Went to the casino, actually won about 100 bucks, and had a nice dinner. This Saturday I'm hosting a Pampered Chef party (damn, that means I actually have to clean house), then going to a friend's baby shower. Non stop marathon I tell ya :)

Hope everyone has a great week, and don't work too hard!

That's it, in a nutshell...

Love my days off...

2006-01-16T07:21:00.000-08:00

We found out about a week ago that they were giving us today off as a holiday, so I'm vegging at home today. Yesterday we went to the bridal salon and picked out the bridesmaid dresses. One more thing to knock off my never ending list. The invitations have been ordered and we'll be sending those out around the end of February/first of March, so look for more clutter in your mailbox.

Not much else going on, Brian and I had a nice day out Saturday. Went to the casino, actually won about 100 bucks, and had a nice dinner. This Saturday I'm hosting a Pampered Chef party (damn, that means I actually have to clean house), then going to a friend's baby shower. Non stop marathon I tell ya :)

Hope everyone has a great week, and don't work too hard!

That's it, in a nutshell...

New year off and running...

2006-01-09T17:04:00.000-08:00

Howdy ya'll...sorry I haven't been around lately. Things got kinda crazy with the holidays, and I started my new job last week. I just wanted to drop a quick line to let you know I'm still thinking of you and hope you had a great holiday. We had my cousins over on the 23rd for presents and games/dinner. My cousins derived an evil, yet brilliant plan regarding Brian's gift. They wrapped a box with a clue, which led to another clue on a shelf, to another clue in the dryer, to another clue in the freezer, to another clue in the bathroom...which finally led him to his gift. Ah how we love to torture the Thonged One MWAHAHAHAHAHA

New Years was fun, had a couple cousins over and my ex (yes, my ex) to play poker. Luckily, unlike Brian, I'm still friends with my ex and he and Brian get along just fine.

Last Tuesday I started my new job, it's going really good so far. I enjoy the people, and the work is the kind of work I enjoy.

The first weekend of February we're flying to L.A. to visit Brian's dad, the kids, and our friends. I can't wait to see everyone. Even though it'll be a quick turnaround weekend, it'll be fun. We're planning to go see Pump Saturday night in Huntington Beach *God I miss the tribute bands*.

The wedding planning is coming along well, although it's approaching way too fast. Time to start kicking it into high gear I guess ;)

That's it, in a nutshell...

2005 Year in Review...

2005-12-21T07:39:00.000-08:00

Well, I can honestly say that I'm glad this year is almost over. It's definitely been a challenging year for us...lots of ups and downs. Here's a brief recap of my 2005 life:

Dec. 30-31, 2004- We move into our apartment in KC, wonderful day and a great move for us.

Feb.-Mar.- I spend a month in the hospital, and end up having major surgery. Very very sick, Brian was worried about what was going to happen. Thanks to his unending love and support, I pulled through it. Had to quit my nursing job because of this.

May - Brian and I spent a fabulous anniversary weekend in Las Vegas. Had a beautiful dinner at the Eiffel Tower Restaurant, saw an awesome show at the Rio, and just enjoyed each other and our time together.

June - Started my new job, it was a contract position. It was a great job that I hoped would last a long time.

July - Brian had surgery on his wrist. He had been suffering for several months and finally got it taken care of. A couple weeks after his surgery, he lost his job...rat bastards.

August - Spent a wild, fun-filled weekend with my fellow Divas in Las Vegas. Got drunker than a skunk and spent the whole first night puking my guts up. Saw one of the best DL shows I've been to...it rocked!

September - My contract job ended sooner than I expected because we finished the work much quicker than anticipated.

October - Brian started his new job, which he just loves, and they love him. I couldn't be happier for him.

November - We spent a happy, laughter-filled Thanksgiving with my family. Reconciled with my aunt who my mom and I hadn't spoken to for about 2 years.

December - I landed a long term contract job at the company I've been trying to get on with since moving back here to KC. I can't wait to start. Preparing to spend a relaxing, fun holiday weekend with my family and Mom's dogs. I just love to bake so I've been having a blast with that.

I hope all of you have a wonderful holiday, and if you're traveling, a very safe trip. May your 2006 be a great year for you. I can't wait for my May wedding and I hope to see you all then. Brian and I love all of you!

That's it, in a nutshell...

Howdy...Happy Hump Day

2005-12-14T13:31:00.000-08:00

Well, it's just another day...not much going on here, just freezing my a$$ off and anxiously waiting to start the new job. Thanks to everyone for the congrats and well wishes, and I apologize for once again being delayed in responding to everyone's blogs. I admit that I've been lazy the past couple days.

Things are fine here, Brian is feeling much better and back to his ornery self. Work is going great for him and he's really enjoying it. We're trying to finish up all our Christmas shopping, and Friday we'll be sending off the kids' presents. I'm in a serious baking mood, so when Mom comes down Friday to bring her gifts for the kids, I may make her help me bake some cookies. Like my fatt a$$ needs to eat them, but what the hell...it's Christmas.

Not too much else to report right now. I've gotten a bit lax on the wedding planning with the holidays and all, so I need to hit that hard after the first of the year. I've read so many bridal magazines that I think my head will explode.

That's it, in a nutshell...

Finally, a GOOD Monday...

2005-12-05T13:04:00.000-08:00

This is the way to end the year...

I had an interview Thursday here in KC, and I just got the call, I got the job! It's only about 10 minutes from home, pay is right, and I start Jan. 3rd. I am SO happy, this is where I've been trying to get on for a while. Right now it's a 6 month contract, but they have so much work that there is definite potential to go longer, and if all goes well and my prayers are answered, maybe I can turn this into a permanent position. I'm just so relieved, this is the best Christmas present.

Anyway, my weekend was pretty quiet. Poor Brian has been sick since last Tuesday...so I've been nursing him back to health. He's feeling better today, but this virus he has causes bad sores in the mouth...it's like hand, foot and mouth disease but only affecting his mouth. The doctor said he could have gotten it from anyplace...off a lunch table at work, while out somewhere, who knows. The doctor said Brian was like the 4th case he had seen last week. Hopefully he'll be completely recovered in the next day or so, so he can start eating and we can go celebrate this job.

I got some Christmas shopping done this weekend as well, still not close to finished but at least I put a dent in it. I hate trying to shop in the stores on the weekend, it's such a zoo. Hopefully I can finish it in the next week or so...if I can figure out what to get Brian GRRR

That's it, in a nutshell...

Happy Thursday...

2005-12-01T07:47:00.000-08:00

I've been a little slow to post here, guess I'm still recovering from the turkey last week. We had a wonderful Thanksgiving with my family, the entire day was spent chatting and laughing.

Three years ago my mom and I had a falling out with my aunt. My aunt made some comments about me to my mom that were out of line, judgemental, and completely uncalled for. It bothered me because she and I have always been like sisters...sure we argued sometimes like sisters do, but there's always been that special bond. Maybe it's because we're only 13 years apart in age. Anyway, she and my mom haven't spoken to each other since, even though my mom had tried to call her and talk about things. The past couple Thanksgivings, she would try and talk to me, but I was pretty cold towards her because of how she treated my mom.

Last week, she was there with her boyfriend, oldest son and her daughter. We sat at the table and talked for probably 2 hours straight, catching up on things, laughing, etc. She and my mom talked briefly throughout the day, but when they got ready to leave, my aunt started making the rounds of hugs. When she got to my mom, she hesitated a little, like she was afraid to hug her, then they just embraced each other for the longest time. I can't remember having such a good feeling in a long time, and I think it did the whole family good to see it. I guess time heals wounds, and I'm hoping we can all move on and start keeping in touch again.

I guess that I got the true gift of Thanksgiving this year...family and healing. For that, I am truly thankful.

That's it, in a nutshell...

Happy Thanksgiving!!

2005-11-22T15:53:00.000-08:00

I know I'm a couple days early, but I'll be spending all day tomorrow with my mom, baking all kinds of goodies for turkey day.

So what are everyone's plans for Thanksgiving? We're spending it at my aunt and uncle's house as always, with the best spread of food since my grandma's holiday dinners. I'm fixing way too many desserts as usual: strawberry cream pie, pumpkin pie, chocolate ribbon pie, cheesecake, fudge, cookies, etc. My favorite thing is my aunt's 7 layer salad: she knows she'll get grief from me if it's not on the table.

Anyway, I want to wish all of you a very happy, safe, and beautiful Turkey day. You will all be in my thoughts. And remember, it's ok to stuff yourself like that bird on the table, it is only 1 day after all *at least that's my reasoning* MWAHAHAHAHA

That's it, in a nutshell...

Another fab Diva weekend...

2005-11-15T10:09:00.000-08:00

Well, thank you divas for a memorable weekend. I had a really great time seeing everyone and having the chance to drool over Joe Sunday night *thanks Karrie!!*

If there's one thing I learned this weekend, it's that me and alcohol are not friends. I ended up with a bit of alcohol poisoning Saturday night, much like the first time I got it several years ago. Not fun. Luckily I had time to recover pretty much before Patty and I went out Sunday afternoon.

The DL show kicked a$$. I've seen them like 13 or 14 times, and for me, this was the best show since I saw them in 2002 in L.A., when I met Brian. Very energetic, musically solid, vocally sounded better than the last time I saw them. I had a guy hitting on me and trying to buy me a drink at the show (guess it must have been really dark in there).

I didn't do a lot of excessive gambling but I did come out a little bit ahead. Gotta love those penny slots.

It was a great time, but I'm glad to be home, with my Thong Boy. I hope to see you ladies again soon and hope you all had good flights home.

That's it, in a nutshell...

BWOCK BWOCK...

2005-11-04T08:44:00.000-08:00

Yep, I'm a chicken...

I was supposed to go to the doctor this week to get my thumb re-casted and I cancelled my appointment. I don't want to be in a cast, for a couple reasons. 1) I really don't want to be in one that I can't take off while I'm in Vegas next weekend and 2) to me, it's almost a claustrophobic feeling. So, when I go for my 2 week checkup next week, I'm sure I'll get scolded. They're supposed to do another set of xrays and I'll find out then whether I have to have surgery or not for the torn ligament. I hope not.

Not much else going on here, Brian's new job is going wonderful, and my job search continues. This is the thing that sucks about doing contract positions. Hopefully something permanent will work out soon.

Tonight is our family poker night again and we're really looking forward to that. It's always a lot of fun, we fix up a bunch of finger foods and play cards from about 6:30 till around 1am (depending on how tired we are). It's good family time.

Hope everyone has a great weekend, I'm going to go saw my thumb off now...

That's it, in a nutshell...

I HATE casts...

2005-10-26T15:22:00.000-07:00

Well, now I'm in a #%$^%&^ cast, hot pink. This sucks >:( The doc said he thinks the ligament tore away from the bone, but initial x-rays were inconclusive. So I go back in 2 weeks to have this cast taken off, more xrays taken, and go from there.

I apologize for not responding to everyone's blogs, but know that I'm thinking of you all and hope all is well. I'll catch up soon, I promise.

That's it, in a nutshell...

I'm such a klutz...

2005-10-21T07:15:00.000-07:00

Brian and I started playing volleyball through our church last week and we are having a blast with it. Last night we were playing and I pulled sometthing in my bad knee. No big deal, I kept playing and having fun. Last play of the night, the ball gets served to me, and I go to set it. Being the graceful person I am, I broke my thumb in the process of setting the ball. >:(

I had broken my other thumb back in high school when I was on flag squad, but I forgot how much you really use your thumb for day to day activities. The ER doc was a hoot though and showed us the xray and explained everything in detail.

So anyway, I'm now in a spint and typing isn't so easy. I did want to add that my uncle may get out of the hospital today, the infection didn't go to the bone, so thanks to everyone for their thoughts and prayers.

That's it, in a nutshell...

Prayers needed for my uncle...

2005-10-18T12:09:00.000-07:00

My uncle, who has severe diabetes, hurt his big toe a year or two ago and has had problems with it since. Over the past couple weeks, it's gotten really red and his leg has been very swollen. He went to the doctor last week, and they tried giving him shots of antibiotics, but it apparently did no good.

I just found out he's being admitted to the hospital today. The infection in his toe has gone to the bone, and they're going to run more tests to find out if it has spread further. He will probably lose his big toe, and we're praying he doesn't lose his entire foot. He's only 55 years old, and this just breaks my heart. He is so special to me, he's almost like a father figure to me. He is the one who is walking me down the aisle for our church wedding in May, and I want him well and able to do that.

Please keep him in your thoughts and prayers. We're all very worried and afraid of what will happen. He isn't in great health, with his diabetes so out of control and very high blood pressure. He works so much and so hard, I just want the very best for him and for him to be better.

Brian started his new job today...

2005-10-18T08:19:00.000-07:00

After 2 1/2 months of looking for work, Brian got the job with the company he wanted, and I'm SO excited for him. It's just literally down the street from our place, about 2 minutes from here. Today's his first day and I'm thinking happy, positive thoughts for him. This is a company I can see him being happy with for a long time, and I'm just thrilled. I can't wait to hear from him today.

Now, I'm just waiting to get a job. My manager at the I.T. staffing agency where I just completed my contract assignment contacted me yesterday. They need people with my skills for some clients of theirs, and he's really pushing to get me on with one company in particular. If I could eventually get on permanent with this company, I would be set for quite some time. Best part is, it's local, not a traveling job. If a traveling job comes about that would be a good feel for me, then I'd seriously consider it, but my ideal job would be right here in KC. Hopefully something will come about in the next couple weeks.

Not too much else going on, we're going out with my cousin and some friends this weekend to our favorite dance club. Next weekend my best friend since 6th grade will be back from her Army officer training and we're going out. I can't wait to see her again. Friday we had our family poker night and I got my butt kicked...GRRR. I love our poker nights, we usually play for about 6 hours and gorge ourselves on food.

25 days until I leave for Vegas!!! WOO HOO!!!!!!!!!!!!

That's it, in a nutshell...

I couldn't do it...

2005-10-11T07:13:00.000-07:00

Well, call me a failure...

We went to Indy Sunday, got checked into the hotel, and then my gut instincts really kicked into high gear. Yesterday was to be my first day at the new job, and when we pulled up to it, I couldn't do it. Let me explain: this was a client I had worked at a few years ago when I was with my other company, and they were a nightmare to work with. In fact, I was supposed to have been assigned to this project back then and got pulled off because I didn't have enough experience for their liking. My co-workers who ended up on the project hated it. Let's just say I had some very bad experiences there and those bad memories came rushing back in a flood yesterday. I guess you could say I had a panic attack...I felt like my butt was glued to the car seat, I couldn't get out. I turned to Brian and told him I can't do it. So we turned around and came home.

I can't even explain the feelings I had, it was horrible, like all those bad things just happened yesterday. I knew that if I continued with this job, I'd make myself physically sick and would probably not do the job I know I'm capable of doing. Although it's a huge relief that I didn't take it, I also feel like a letdown. I mean, I'm still getting tons of calls and interviews this week for other positions, and some that pay even more, but I still feel like I let myself and Brian down (even though he says he's proud of me for going with my heart). I just pray that this was in fact the right decision.

Today I have phone calls/interviews with 3 different companies, so hopefully something good will come of them. The company here in KC where I just finished my contract through is also working to get me another position. If I can stay local that would be ideal...I'm finding that as I get older, I do better with a "regular" work/life routine. The constant travel is grueling and tiring after a while.

Well, anyway, hope everyone had a great week. I love all of you for your support.

That's it, in a nutshell...

Start my new job Monday..

2005-10-08T11:08:00.000-07:00

Well, I got a job. At least I was able to enjoy a week at home relaxing before starting up again. This recruiter who's been trying to get me for 2 years finally succeeded. It's another consulting job and I'll be traveling to Indianapolis every week for it. I'm not real thrilled about the location but hopefully I'll only be here for a couple months max before one of the other jobs I'm interviewing for comes through. Ideally I'd like to just be home with a job here, but I can't pass the money up right now. There's a chance another job might come through that would be in southern California for a few months.

At least Brian will be traveling with me this week...we're road tripping it to Indy, should be fun. It'll make the first week much easier to have him with me, almost like a mini vacation.

Wish me luck this week...BLAH!!

That's it, in a nutshell...

Thanks for the well wishes...

2005-10-04T09:22:00.000-07:00

OK, I'm back from Boston, and I'm POOPED. I got to the airport Sunday and my flight was oversold, so they put me on Midwest Airlines...if you've never flown them, they're AWESOME. All 1st class seating, fresh baked chocolate chip cookies. It was great. I get to the hotel in Cambridge and find out that this company in fact did NOT pay for the hotel room, and I had to pay out of my pocket. Translation: I was ready to seriously hurt somebody. That was 200 bucks I didn't expect and I let the company know. They're working on reversing the charges on my card and have it charged directly to their company card, so I don't have to wait for an expense reimbursement check. They told me they would take care of airfare and hotel, and I would just need to submit for cab fare and meals. GRRRR

Anyway, the interview went well, it was 3 1/2 hours long but everyone was very nice and it was pretty laid back. They treated me to lunch yesterday before I had to head back to the airport. The rest of the day was uneventful, flights back home were good. I'm not sure when I'll hear something but hopefully soon.

I also had a phone interview with another company last night that seemed to go well. I have yet another call today with another company that basically wants me, they just want me to talk to the person who's place I'd be taking over for. It's a 6 month assignment in Indianapolis so it would be weekly travel. We'll see how that goes and if it's something I'd want to do for 6 months.

Anyway, not much else, just thoroughly enjoying the time at home with Brian right now, and trying to take everything in stride. We both want to get back to work ASAP, but the time together is so precious to me. Everything works out for a reason, and I know that we'll both get something soon. I have faith in that. Brian's been such a huge support and my biggest cheerleader, and I love him so much for that. How did I get so lucky? :)

Oh Kim, I got the package....YOU ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *MWAH* I can't wait to hear and see them!!! LUV YOU!!

Have a great week everyone!

That's it, in a nutshell...

I'm off to the East coast...

2005-09-29T17:33:00.000-07:00

The job I've been working since June was a contract position, and originally it was supposed to go until November. Well, we were able to wrap up the main project I was working on sooner than expected, so I found out last night that I was no longer needed. That's what sucks about contract positions. The one positive is that I gained several great references and good experience.

I've been putting feelers out there since I knew the contract would be ending in November and have gotten a LOT of feedback. I had a phone interview last Friday with a company, and they're flying me to Boston Sunday for a Monday morning interview. I've never been to Boston and even though it's a quick turnaround trip, I'm excited. It'll be cool to see a new place. I'm hoping this goes well because it's a job I think I'd really enjoy. I'd be an educator, basically going in to hospitals and training them on this company's computer system. Keep your fingers crossed for me. In the meantime I'm still applying at other places, including local jobs...don't want to put all my eggs in one basket, ya know?

Anyway, that's about it going on here. I'm really excited about the Vegas trip in November and SO ready for it!!

That's it, in a nutshell...

Vegas here I come!!

2005-09-28T09:52:00.000-07:00

WOO HOO!!! I can't wait to go to Vegas in November to see my divas and DL. It's going to be a rockin' good time!! I feel bad because Brian isn't coming with me, but he said I need a weekend with the girls, so I'm going to go and enjoy myself. My flight is booked, now I just need to book the hotel room and get my concert ticket and I'm set! Can't wait!!

As far as that damn Monday night game, I'd rather not discuss it. What an embarrassment to lose that bad 1) when we're a better team and 2) to Denver of all teams. >:(

That's it, in a nutshell...

Monday Night Football...

2005-09-26T06:24:00.000-07:00

OK Patty, it's on.... GO CHIEFS!!!

Another great weekend come and gone. Brian was sick most of the weekend with another sinus/cold problem, and yesterday neither one of us had any energy for anything. We spent yesterday just laying around the house, watching football and taking naps. I almost didn't come in to work today because I feel the same way, but here I am.

We had another family poker game Friday night. It reminds me of the days when my family sat around the table at my grandparents house playing cards for hours on end. It's so much fun and great time to just chat with my cousins and stuff. *of course it also doesn't hurt that I tied my mom for first place* >:)

Saturday we played pool, and my cousin came over in the evening to do scrapbooking. I swear, just when I finish a page, I find that I have 20 more to do. I might get my scrapbook finished by the time I'm 80.

OK, so is DL going to announce this Vegas show? I'm hoping it happens soon so I can book my flight...I'm SO ready for Vegas again!!

All right, enough of my rambling, everyone have a fantastic week!

That's it, in a nutshell...

Weekends are always too short...

2005-09-19T12:22:00.000-07:00

Ahh, another beautiful weekend, more shopping completed, another Chiefs victory...it doesn't get much better. :)

Kim, I was crying for ya girl with that 49rs game yesterday...especially to lose to that sack of $hit T.O. and his team...

How many more days till Vegas Patty? I can't wait!!!!

Have a great week everyone!

That's it, in a nutshell...

OW

2005-09-13T08:30:00.000-07:00

Well, it's done. My tooth is pulled and I look like a lopsided swollen face blowfish. I just love having to bite on gauze all day. Even my damn ear is numb, oh joy.

If they ever have to pull my wisdom teeth, they're knocking me out for it. I felt like my head was going to be pulled from my neck. >:( At least the doctor was really nice, very informative and laid back.

OK, off to try and work....HA HA.

That's it, in a nutshell...

Off to the dentist I go...

2005-09-12T07:44:00.000-07:00

I HATE DENTISTS.

Well, so much for hoping that this tooth would get better. I had a miserable weekend with it, so I'm off to the dentist this afternoon. My gums are swollen where the affected tooth is and it hurts like a mother $#@!~^. I had a root canal done on it 2 years ago but never had the permanent cap put on it. There's so little of the tooth structure left that I'm hoping they just pull the damn thing. Pull the tooth, but NO root canal!

On to happier things...the Chiefs won and they actually showed a little defense this time! Hopefully they can keep improving on the defense, since that's what killed them last year. I love football season, it brings back so many good memories for me. From sitting with my granddad as a little girl wearing my jersey and helmet, to high school football games and performing during pregame and halftime shows, to sitting with Brian and my family watching college and NFL games. Not to mention that it means fall is just around the corner, my favorite season of the year.

Here's to a new week, have a great one!

That's it, in a nutshell...

Long weekends go WAY too fast...

2005-09-06T05:52:00.000-07:00

Well here it is, Tuesday feeling like Monday, back at the office, and I find myself having the same trouble with not being able to concentrate like I did Friday.

Hope everyone had a great weekend. Ours was pretty quiet and relaxed. I got some more small items for the wedding, and we had Mom down Sunday and yesterday. Brian started getting sick Saturday so he was pretty much feeling like dog poo most of the weekend. Apparently there's a flu-like virus going around here, and my cousin had it and now Brian got it. Hopefully he'll be feeling better today, he has his first test at school tonight *which I know he'll do awesome on*.

Not much else happening around here, just trying to get my brain back into "work" mode. Oh, and I think my tooth might be impacted again *DAMMIT*. I HATE dentists >:(

That's it, in a nutshell...

Our wedding website

2005-08-31T07:08:00.000-07:00

OK, so I'm not very good at setting up these websites and stuff, but I figured that since it's step by step, what the hell. I've set up a web page for our wedding, so please check it out and sign the guest book. Here's the link: http://walkerandwalker.weddings.com.

Not too much else going on here, just ready for the week to be over so I can enjoy my 3 day weekend. We're having Mom down Sunday for dinner and probably do some wedding shopping, and she's going to stay the night so we can make homemade ice cream Monday. YUMMY

Oh, I have to rant...what the %#$@ is up with the friggin' gas prices? I was driving home yesterday and in the matter of 8 hours, it jumps from 2.69 to 2.89...I'm telling you, something has got to give or else we're all going to be riding bikes everywhere. I told Brian that I'm waiting for some major hostile takeover to occur across the country by Americans who have had it with the gas prices. It's gone beyond the point of ridiculous.

That's it, in a nutshell...

Our NFL experience...

2005-08-29T08:20:00.000-07:00

Saturday night Brian and I went to the Chiefs last home pre-season game, and we had so much fun I can't even explain. It was his first NFL game ever, and my second one (my first one was in 1989, when our band performed at the Chiefs vs. Raiders game). Even though the Chiefs lost, we had a blast, and the defense FINALLY started looking better. I thought I was going to jump right off the third level when Larry Johnson ran the ball 97 yards for a TD...it was a beautiful sight. I'm hoping we can score some tickets for a regular season game this year.

We took several pics, and a gentleman there was kind enough to take a picture of Brian and I in our matching Chiefs shirts. As soon as we get them developed I'll post them here. *yes, I willingly posed for a picture, which is a miraculous thing*.

The rest of the weekend was great, after church we went down to my mom's house for dinner. I swear my grandma's hand is right there with my mom when she cooks, it tastes exactly like Grandma's cooking. It was SO good, I miss those home cooked meals like that.

Today is a difficult day for me. It was 4 years ago today that I walked into my beloved grandma's house to fix dinner, and found her lifeless body. She was sitting on the couch, and although she was "breathing", it was the respirations of somebody dying. The hardest thing I ever had to do in my life was to call 911 and tell them not to do CPR because she was a do not resuscitate. I had to honor her wishes and let her go be with my granddad. I had taken care of her for the last 4 years of her life, but still felt like I didn't do enough. She was a saint, one of my best friends, and to this day I still miss her like crazy. I had the honor of giving her eulogy at her funeral (it was a unanimous decision among my family, because I was the closest to her), and although it was hard, it also brought comfort to me. She will always be right next to me, cheering me on in everything I do. I only wish she could have been here to meet Brian, she would have loved him like her own grandson.

She was a huge Chiefs fan, so I know she was at the game with us, cheering the team on.

Grandma, this post is dedicated to you...I love you always.

Here's to a new week...

2005-08-23T08:31:00.000-07:00

Well, I can honestly say that I'm glad to have a new week start, after all the BS of last week. We had a great weekend, spent Saturday afternoon at my cousin's house to celebrate her son's 2nd birthday party. I got to meet my cousin's cousin's husband and kids (on their mom's side). He was wearing a Def Leppard shirt so you can guess what he and Brian were talking about for 3 hours straight. Turns out he's a huge 80's hair band fan like we are and saw DL in Ft. Worth, so we had plenty to talk about. Great guy, very nice and a lot of fun. He and his wife have 2 adopted kids that are 2 of the most beautiful kids I've ever seen, and so well mannered (they're 3 and 2). The 3 year old was helping me play pool, and he was getting such a kick out of it. The 2 year old girl attached herself to me and even helped me shoot a couple shots as well. It was a lot of fun.

Sunday we officially joined our church. It's a great environment and the people are so welcoming; it's the most comfortable I've ever felt in any church. We talked to the pastor and we're set for our wedding there May 20th, so that's a huge relief. Brian happened to mention to them that he plays the bass guitar, and used to play it in his old church a lot, so they were salivating over that because they need a bass player. It'll be fun to get involved and meet new people.

Other than that, we spent the rest of our day Sunday playing pool, grocery shopping (gotta love that in 90% humidity, ugh), watching movies and relaxing.

Brian started school last night. He's taking 2 classes right now to start out, and is planning to study administration of justice. He's so excited and I know he's going to do great and enjoy it so much. I'm so proud of him. Tonight is his first admin of jusice class so he's pretty psyched over that. Go get em!!

I just wanted to say a quick thank you to all of my friends who have supported Brian and I over the events of the past week. Kim, Patty, Jules, Karrie, Traci, Jen, Lisa, Debbie, etc, you all rock and we love you for your support!

That's it, in a nutshell...

The value of a true friendship is apparently hard to find...

2005-08-18T13:10:00.000-07:00

My day to vent...

As many of you know, Brian and I were heavily involved in a certain convention that took place last year (before which we got married), and were involved in the planning of this year (which has now been "postponed" until next year). After returning from the Rock Never Stops concert last night (which kicked ASS), we were abruptly greeted with an email stating that we had been removed from the committee. No one on one discussion prior, nothing. Now, according to this email, it was to maintain and save their friendships with us. As many of you also know, we are talking about a power-hungry, immature person who "leads" this event. Please tell me if I'm missing something, but where does one get the idea that sending a blanket email saying, C-YA, is going to make me believe that you value my friendship? I find it ironic that the 3 free-thinkers of the group are now officially not part of the committee. Three people who were the voice of reason from a year ago when we said, let's get started...and then when the "leader" procrastinated, we said let's postpone. Now it's postponed due to the procrastination and the inability of somebody who claims to know how to be a "leader" to accept and work with others' ideas, concerns, and criticisms.

Supposedly it was a "unanimous" decision, and if that's the case, not only were we stabbed in the back by this "leader", but also by each and every person on the committee who ever claimed to be our "friend." If there's one thing in this world I HATE, it's backstabbers. You make one mistake about something I'll give you a second chance, you stab me so blatantly in the back like this and you can go to hell.

I have no regrets about any concerns or thoughts that I revealed to this "committee", and I guess in many ways they did Brian and I both a favor by doing this. It showed who our real friends really are (and aren't) and it reflects the true lack of leadership and professionalism of a person who obviously suffers from a severe lack of self-esteem and effective people skills. Again, NOTHING PERSONAL, just the humble truth from somebody who values her friends and doesn't appreciate backstabbing as a form of "leadership."

That's it, in a nutshell...

Another week, blah blah blah

2005-08-15T14:01:00.000-07:00

Hope everyone had a great weekend. Ours was pretty busy but fun. Saturday Mom and I ordered my dress, I'm so excited. Brian has seen the dress but I figured since he's already seen me in the "original" wedding dress, he could see this one. We went and looked for the supplies we're going to need for the table centerpieces at the reception, and got the colored stones for that. Slowly but surely, we're making headway.

We met with the baker and the florist last week, loved them both. The baker gave us 6 cupcakes as samples and needless to say, we were bouncing from wall to wall and hanging from the ceiling LOL They were SOOOOO good. We picked out our cake, and the flowers, so that's set. Now I just have to find bridesmaid dresses that don't cost as damn much as my dress. I can't believe the prices. The first batch of save the date magnets went out Friday, and the rest will go out this week (provided I get everyone's addresses).

I've decided that I think I'm going to try and work a part time job, just to help pay for the wedding expenses and maybe help save a little extra money for other things. I figure I can give it a try and if it's too much, I'll just quit. It's not a necessity, just something I'd like to try.

We're also discussing the possibility of going to the Chicago DL show (Jules, we'll let you know for sure!). It's going to depend on finances at the time and everything else. Hopefully Brian will get this job offer that he interviewed for last week. They're supposed to make a decision around the middle of this week. Please keep your fingers crossed for him.

Anyway, not too much else going on. Patty, we got the pics, LOVE em!!

That's it, in a nutshell...

Finally getting to posting after an amazing week!

2005-08-09T13:07:00.000-07:00

I don't even know where to begin...we had such an AMAZING week with Patty as our houseguest. I only hope we showed you as good of a time as you did for us, we had a blast!
I won't go into every detail because I'm sure she'll post a lot of it, but I will say that despite the heat exhaustion at the DL show, it was great. Playing pool with Patty *kicking her butt HEEHEE* and watching her try to make a growling noise without hacking a loogie across the room. Taking Patty out for the best BBQ in the world was quite a fun experience *especially with our waiter, nice tall drink of water>>>RRRAAARRR*. Going to Funkytown and dancing until our feet fell off. Eating breakfast with Patty and waiting until leaving the airport to bawl my head off. It was a memorable time and I can't wait to do it again when she comes back!!

It's been a crazy busy week at work, that's a good thing. Tonight we've got an appointment with the baker and hopefully decide on the cake we want. Thursday is the appointment with the florist, who is coming to our place to go over things. The reception site and DJ are already booked, and Saturday Mom and I are going over to order my dress. The save the date magnets are being mailed out this week so be on the lookout for those.

Have a great week and stay cool!

That's it, in a nutshell...

Great show last night, but I didn't get to watch most of it

2005-08-04T09:40:00.000-07:00

Last night's concert was GREAT!! Brian, Patty and I got to the ball park around 1:30 in the 95+ degree heat, met some great people in line and had a lot of fun. We saw Jules and Karrie (it was great seeing you ladies again *smooch*), saw Steph again (great seeing you again too!), and met Rhonda (finally!!!). We had our cooler, drank buttloads of water and kept well hydrated....or so I thought.

I was drinking water all day/evening, and Def Leppard just starts to hit the stage when I start feeling horrible, having chest pain and heart palpitations (I have mitral valve prolapse and regurgitation), and felt like I was going to pass out. Of ALL times to get heat exhaustion, damn it all to hell. So Brian and I ended up listening to the concert from the car, and then we went to the hospital so I could get re-hydrated. Bless Patty's heart, she insisted on going with us and was right at my side. True friends like that don't come along often, and I love her even more because of that gesture of support and concern. We didn't get home until almost 3am, so consequently I'm dragging today. (Kim, I apologize I wasn't able to get pictures *sad*)

Anyway, on a good note: we went to the bridal show Saturday, and Tuesday evening I got a call from Celebrity China (the host of the event), letting me know that I won one of the drawings they had had at the show. We won a 3 day/2 night stay at a destination of our choice. I'll get more details tonight when we go over to claim our prize. From somebody who never wins anything, I was pretty damn excited :)

1 more day till the weekend!! Stay cool!

That's it, in a nutshell...

Patty's comin' to town today!!

2005-08-02T06:39:00.000-07:00

WOOHOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Patty melt gets in at 6:37 tonight and Brian and I will be there with a smile and a sign *MWAHAHAHAHA* I can't wait to see her again and hang out with her this week. Tomorrow is the DL show (which of course it will be icky hot hot hot), Thursday my mom is coming down to have dinner with us, and then either Friday or Saturday we're taking Patty to Funkytown, a local dance club here that plays the 70s, 80s music (and yes, they play DL!). It should be a lot of fun. Hopefully we'll meet up with Jules and Karrie tomorrow at the show as well, can't wait to see everyone again!

I am so clumsy...2 Fridays ago I was leaving work and I fell down the stairs and landed on my bad knee. I had just had an MRI of that knee the day before I fell, and I think I really tore something from the fall. I could just kick myself for being so clumsy. I can't remember the last time I had that kind of pain.

Anyway, gotta run for now...hope everyone has a GREAT week!!

That's it, in a nutshell...

The reception site is booked, the date is set

2005-07-28T10:13:00.000-07:00

Well, we were able to get the reception hall that we wanted. Apparently somebody already had our date booked there and changed it to the day before, so we timed it perfectly. It's going to be May 20, 2006 here in Kansas City. We're still deciding on a church but hoping to have that done in the next couple weeks. I'm really excited, this is so important to us, to bring the kids into the ceremony, to bring our families together, and to get our friends all together for this. It's going to be great. After everything that we've gone through over the past year, job losses, the move, me being in the hospital for a month earlier this year and Brian afraid that he was going to lose me (I guess I didn't realize how sick I was), this reaffirmation is going to be extra special. Hopefully we'll see you all there.

We'll be sending out save the date magnets in the next few weeks so please let me know if you don't get yours.

Anyway, not too much else going on. We're going to the bridal show with Mom Saturday, hopefully getting together with a nursing school friend of mine for lunch or dinner, and just counting down the days until Ms. Patty is here!!

6 days to Def Leppard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Even this witch could melt in this heat

2005-07-25T11:55:00.000-07:00

Jeez, can it get any hotter?? We went to Branson Saturday because Brian has never been there before, and to do some shopping. We went with my mom and cousin, had a great time despite the heat index of 120 degrees. The heat was horrid. BUT, I came home with some damn good deals :) Gotta love outlet malls!!

Yesterday Brian and I decided at the last minute to go to the Journey concert. It was a great show, but we had to end up leaving a little early because of the heat. There's nothing worse than that nauseated, knots-in-the-stomach feeling from the hot weather. We had a good time overall though...got to listen to some great tunes and drooled over the lead singer and his hair.

We're planning to make another trip to Branson in a couple months, hopefully to find a unity candle and some other stuff that I didn't get this trip. We're making pretty good progress with the wedding/reception plans. I think we've figured out where the reception will be, just gotta put the deposit down. I've also figured out my colors, found my dress, and pretty much figured out the bridesmaid dresses. We're going to a bridal show here in town this Saturday so hopefully I can get a chance to schedule some time with the bakers and florists. I can't wait.

Everybody, stay cool, drink lots of water...and OH PATTY, 8 more days until you're here and 9 days until the Leps!!! WOO HOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That's it, in a nutshell...

Just another hot day...

2005-07-18T17:01:00.000-07:00

We had a fun weekend, went down to my aunt and uncle's campsite Saturday, had dinner, and shot fireworks (since we didn't get to do it 4th of July weekend). It was a nice, relaxing time with the family (although hotter than hell) and I had great conversation with my uncle.

My uncle is a very important and special person to me. He is very much like my grandfather was, and my grandfather was my father figure until his death in '84. Seeing my uncle is like looking at Granddad, and it just makes me proud. Anyway, I wanted to ask him if he would walk me down the aisle for our ceremony next spring but was afraid to. He had walked me down the aisle for my practice wedding 9 years ago so I wasn't sure if he'd want to do it again. Since I didn't have the nerve to ask, Brian asked him for me. He said yes, and I just couldn't stop crying. It means SO much to me to have him do this, especially since he wasn't able to be in Vegas last year, and I think he really realized it because I saw him wiping away tears too. I'm so excited and so proud.

Anyway, we're already busy in the planning stages of the ceremony and reception. I can't wait.

That's it, in a nutshell...

Brian had surgery today, doing well

2005-07-12T17:23:00.000-07:00

Today has been a loooooong day. Brian had surgery on his wrist (his writing hand, of course GRRR). He had carpal tunnel repaired and a ganglion cyst/scar tissue removed. He's home and, except for getting sick once from the anesthetic, is doing well. He's in quite a bit of pain which will hopefully subside soon. I got a funny picture of him with my camera phone right after they gave him the happy relaxing drugs in pre-op, if I can figure out how to get it on my computer I'll post it...MWAHAHAHA

We've been talking, and we've decided that since we never got our wedding reception or cake, we are going to do it next year, either in May or June. Since the twins didn't get to be a part of the ceremony last year, we are going to fly them here and do a church "family" ceremony as well. We're planning to invite everyone so please, if I can get addresses I will love you forever. I know some people have moved so I need to get updated addresses. It's going to be a fun party and I'm excited.

Hope everyone's week is going great. I'm going to go take care of that big stud of mine right now.

That's it, in a nutshell...

HAPPY 4TH OF JULY!!!

2005-07-04T14:14:00.000-07:00

Hope everyone is having a wonderful, safe holiday!!!

Ah, the joys of summer...

2005-06-19T08:12:00.000-07:00

Well, the first week of work is over and I can honestly say that I thought my head was going to explode by the end of Friday LOL...It was a good week overall, lots to learn and catch up on, but the people are very nice, and it's a pretty laid back environment. I just have some refreshing to do, since I haven't worked with this application in this much detail for over 4 years.

Yesterday, we had a yard sale at my mom's place. Had a great day for it and a great turnout. Got all of the big items sold and a lot of the smaller things, which was great. My mom wants to move to Vegas in the next year or so, so we're trying to clean her place out and get rid of as much stuff as possible. I ended up pretty fried (I just love being so fair skinned...grrr), my shoulders and back are the worst, and of course I have the racoon eyes. Very attractive :)

OK, I've got to go get Brian away from the TV, he's watching poker again...hope ya'll had a great weekend and have an awesome week!

That's it, in a nutshell...

My first day...

2005-06-13T18:46:00.000-07:00

It was a great day, very productive. I'm on information overload right now but I know it'll fall into place in time. The people are great, it's just a very comfortable environment. This is a 3-4 month assignment with the chance of turning permanent, which I really hope happens. They cater in lunch every Tuesday and Thursday for the employees, and have free beverages, popcorn and fruits for us too. It just feels good.

Well, we went today and got a car. It's funny, I had a dream last week that we got a car with a sun roof, and sure enough, it has one. I can't wait to pick it up tomorrow!! Now Ms. Daisy will have a sister (I know, I'm crazy)...

Hope everyone had a great weekend and has a great week...

That's it, in a nutshell...

I got it!!

2005-06-10T12:36:00.000-07:00

I got the job...start Monday morning!!!

WOOHOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FINALLY!!!!

2005-06-09T12:46:00.000-07:00

After 3 months of sending resumes, one interview after another, today I get what looks like 2 offers. I go for the final meeting on the second one tomorrow morning, but they have already said they are sure I'm the right fit for the job and are really excited, as am I. This is the job I want, it would get me back into working with database administration/database analyst work, and it's with a company that does analysis and statistical work for children's hospitals nationwide. If all goes as anticipated tomorrow, I'll start Monday. YEA!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Right now it's a 3 month contract, but there's a very good likelihood that, because of my background, I'd be hired on permanently after that time. I can't wait! What a relief, this sitting around, going week after week getting hopes up only to have them dashed, is draining.

Hey, I might have a reason to celebrate this weekend...woohoo!!!

That's it, in a nutshell...

It's getting into Leppard season...

2005-06-02T07:59:00.000-07:00

I don't know about you, but I'm ready for the show! 2 more months and Ms. Patty will be here and we'll be rockin' out to our Leps!! I can't wait to hear about everybody's else's shows as well...I'm SO ready for the summer concert season?

So, what other shows do you have planned to see this summer? Brian and I will be seeing Journey in July, and Quiet Riot, Firehouse, Ratt and Cinderella in August. Still waiting on other tour dates for other bands but those 2 plus DL are the planned ones so far.

Hope everyone is having a great week. I'm still plugging away at resumes and interviews so hopefully that right job will hit soon.

That's it, in a nutshell...

Happy Memorial Day!!

2005-05-30T12:39:00.000-07:00

Hope everyone is enjoying the long weekend!!!!!

Back from Vegas...What a Trip

2005-05-18T08:44:00.000-07:00

Don't you just hate the end of vacations? Brian was practically having to drag me by my hair on to the plane yesterday. We had an AWESOME time, it was a great first anniversary gift to ourselves.

Saturday: Arrived in Vegas around 9:30am, played bingo (yes, I will be one of those blue haired old ladies in about 40 years), gambled. Dinner at Trattoria de Lupo at Mandalay Bay. It was delicious and to see Brian's face when he got the bill and saw that our side salad was 12 bucks was worth it all...MWAHAHAHA. Went to a show at the Rio that night, had a good time.

Sunday: Gambled, went to the spa at Treasure Island and had my makeup done for the evening. Had our anniversary dinner at the Eiffel Tower restaurant at Paris. Talk about delicious food...I decided to try quail and was pleasantly surprised at how much I liked it. Once again, enjoyed Brian's facial expressions when we paid our $120 dinner bill. We thought about going to a show but decided to just hit some hotels, gamble and enjoy ourselves. Played paigow poker (I'm hooked).

Monday: Gambled (see a pattern here?), went and saw the new Wynn hotel, it was nice, but I wasn't as impressed with it as I thought I might be. Went to the Mirage for a bit, went back and played bingo. Dinner at Cafe Lago at Caesar's Palace, then went to the Tesla show at the House of Blues. It was a great show, even though we only stayed for an hour. Went back to our hotel and played more paigow.

Tuesday: The dreaded return home day. Gambled a bit, played some paigow with wicked bad luck...then headed back to hell, I mean home.

Even though we only broke even with gambling, we had such a good time it didn't matter. I got to spend my time with my Thong Boy in our favorite city, and I can't wait to spend a hundred more anniversaries like this.

That's it, in a nutshell...

See ya'll in a few days!!

2005-05-13T08:21:00.000-07:00

WOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Brian is taking off at noon so we can run our errands and get ready for tomorrow...OMG I SO can't wait!!

We decided to have our anniversary dinner Sunday at the Eiffel Tower Restaurant at Paris, and Monday we're going to see Tesla at the House of Blues. I can hardly sit still I'm so darn excited...like a kid in a candy store!

Have a WONDERFUL weekend and I'll catch up with ya'll when I get back Wednesday!!

That's it, in a nutshell...

Scrapbooking...

2005-05-09T12:51:00.000-07:00

Well, it's almost a year since my wedding, and I'm finally almost finished with my scrapbook LOL Now that I finally have a printer to print pictures, I can hopefully finish it up this week. We're getting some pics from LepCon as well so I can finish that scrapbook too. For some reason, my head was in a cloud that day so I forgot our camera to take pictures at the convention *OOPS*

It's a quiet Monday, not a whole lot going on. Got an interview tomorrow, if I get it I would be just down the highway from Brian, which means we'd only need to take one car for work.

Speaking of cars, my beloved Ms. Daisy has been weird since I got her back. She used to always heat up driving on side roads and having to stop frequently. Now her gauge is showing her heating up on the highway...I don't know if the temperature gauge isn't working right due to the type of repair they did, or if she's just deciding to act ass-backwards to frustrate me. Cars, gotta love them. Time to go back to horses...

That's it, in a nutshell...

12 days and counting...

2005-05-02T20:01:00.000-07:00

I can't remember the last time I was so ready for a damn vacation. 12 days to Vegas, and I can hardly stand the wait. I've been trying to figure out for almost a month what clothes to pack, and keep finding stuff on Ebay that I want. You would think that I was going for 2 weeks instead of 4 days. And of course, it wouldn't be complete without buying at least 2 new pairs of shoes. I don't know where Brian is going to pack his clothes...

OK, so I bought an ice cream maker, one like my grandma used to have...now I just have to find the damn rock salt for it and we'll see if I can make it work, or if I end up making ice salt.

12 days to go.....bring on Vegas BABY!!!

That's it, in a nutshell...

26 days and counting...

2005-04-18T12:27:00.000-07:00

We finally booked our anniversary trip...heading back to Vegas, where it all started for us almost a year ago. I am so excited!! We're trying to decide what shows to go see while we're there...thinking about Howie Mandel, or We Will Rock You...ugh so many to choose from :)
I'm treating myself to a spa treatment before we go to dinner on Sunday the 15th...and then dinner either at Top of the World (Stratosphere) or the Eiffel Tower restaurant. It's going to be so nice to get away for a while, especially after the crazy few months we've had. Brian deserves this vacation more than anybody I know.

Hope everyone's weekend was great...we had a nice weekend, spent Saturday around the town and Sunday went to my mom's to start getting stuff together for her community's annual yard sale in June.

That's it, in a nutshell...:)

Happy Birthday Brian! (4/11)

2005-04-12T07:33:00.000-07:00

Sorry, I'm a day late getting this up, but yesterday was Thong Boy's birthday and we had a very nice dinner and evening stroll, very relaxing evening. Brian, I hope your day was great for you and I love you SO much!!! :)

Happy Birthday to me...30 forever!

2005-04-09T20:35:00.000-07:00

Just a quick note, it's late as Brian and I just got back from a great day on the town to celebrate our birthdays. Went and saw Fever Pitch (we really enjoyed it, very cute show), went shopping, dinner at the Rainforest Cafe, played pool, took a leisurely drive and went to the Plaza for a while. Just a great day with my guy...it's these moments I love the most, quality time with the best guy in the world. :)

England here I come???

2005-04-06T14:25:00.000-07:00

OK, so I've been talking to a recruiter and the client she's working with. They are talking to me about a year long assignment in England, either near Stratford or Manchester. Now, I've never been overseas before, neither has Brian, so this would be quite an adventure to say the least. I'm not getting hopes up, but if they do present an offer to me at the right price, we will likely do it. What better way to get a once in a lifetime opportunity like this, see so many of the countries I've wanted to visit, and gain a highly valuable work experience...

Of course, I've got some other opportunities out there too so I'm just sitting around waiting...the wait sucks big time!

Other than that, I'm enjoying the beautiful day we have here, and hope that Brian is well enough to go to karaoke again this Friday...I still can't believe I got up there and sang like 3 songs with my cousins (Photograph, and I'll never embarass Joe like that again...Like a Virgin, yeah I know...and Smokin In the Boys Room).

That's it, in a nutshell...

Happy Beautiful Monday!!!

2005-04-04T12:50:00.000-07:00

Well, after a wonderful weekend it's back to the job search grindstone. I had a phone call with a company who had talked to me over a year ago, and they are still very interested. I'm having another phone interview with them tomorrow, and I have an interview tomorrow afternoon with a company who I had my phone interview with last week (I think I just confused myself). I had a dream last night that I got the job with the latter company, so hopefully this is one dream that turns out to be true :)

It's so nice and warm here today, they're calling for a high of 83....LOVE IT!!! I've been so cold since my surgery a few weeks ago, which is completely the opposite of my norm, so the warmth feels great.

Please send well wishes to Brian, he's quite sick right now with a head and chest cold, and it's been causing his asthma to kick in some. Poor guy, he's had to endure so much with me being sick lately and now he gets sick...:(

Anyway, that's about it. I'm going to hold onto my prediction that I get a job by the end of this week. In the meantime, I'm going to figure out a way to crawl into a hole this Saturday (my birthday, I'm 29 and holding)...

That's it, in a nutshell...

My favorite month...and happy April Fools

2005-04-01T07:22:00.000-08:00

Ah, the best month of the year...good name, flowers blooming, grass getting green, me turning another year older....oh wait, that SUCKS.

OK, all the taxes are sent off, federal and state, one more thing to cross off my list. Now, if one of these damn places I've talked to/interviewed with will just GIVE ME A JOB!!! I had 3 interviews this week, and talked to about 3 times as many other places. I think I need to find a book of matches and light a fire under somebody's butt.

Anyway, hope everyone has a great weekend and remember, don't be the fool today!

That's it, in a nutshell...

Interviews finally...

2005-03-29T10:16:00.000-08:00

It never fails, when you're chomping at the bit to work, everybody takes their sweet time with the hiring process. Finally this week I have some interviews set up. I have one this afternoon, and 2 phone interviews scheduled for tomorrow evening. I will probably also have one for next Monday or Tuesday as well. I really hope something comes about real soon, I'm so SICK of sitting at home and my tummy is healing great, so time to get back to the grindstone! :)

Brian and I are still trying to figure out what we're going to do for our anniversary...I am actually hoping for Vegas, since that's where our married life started, it would be a great spot to celebrate our first year together. Also, we're hoping to see one of our evil twins who lives in Denver soon...so it's either going to be road trip for us or being hosts to the beautiful Denver Diva. Can't wait to see you girl!!

To all my DL pals, are you getting geared up for the concert season yet? Tickets for the show here go on sale this week...but we have to wait until August until they perform here (BOO!).

Anyway, not too much else. Gotta get ready for this interview, and get out and enjoy this beautiful 70 degree weather.

Have a great day!

That's it, in a nutshell...

Happy Good Friday/Easter weekend

2005-03-25T08:44:00.000-08:00

TGIF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have never been so ready for a week to be over...is it me or was this a painfully long week?

Well, went to the doctor Wednesday and got the $%$% staples out of my incision. It's healing nicely and I'm amazed at how little discomfort I'm in right now. Thankfully I can now turn my focus on other things, like getting that right job, and even more importantly, spending quality time with my best friend and husband.

Anyway, hope everyone has a great weekend. If you have Easter plans, have a wonderful time. We're spending it with my mom, and we'll probably go play pool Sunday for a while as well.

Take care and have a great one!!

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What a roller coaster month...

2005-03-21T13:48:00.000-08:00

Well, I am home again after having major surgery last week. Other than being sore, I'm just glad to be home and SO SO ready to get back to normal life. Just got to find the right job and I'll be fine.

I was glad to finally hear the DL concert dates, and am marking my calendar for the shows. Should be a fun concert-filled summer for us. I'm so ready for it, and so ready to get back out to California to visit all our friends and the kids.

Not too much else going on here. Brian and I have date day Saturday, gonna hit a movie and dinner, which I'm looking forward to. Got to talk to Ms. Patty yesterday which always cheers me up (luv ya girl!).

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Happy Monday...New week thank GOD!!

2005-03-07T12:51:00.000-08:00

Hope everyone had a great weekend. Brian and I spent most of our weekend just relaxing and enjoying each other's company. We had my cousin over for a bit yesterday, watched some movies and had pizza. It was a nice time.

Well, I guess I'll be going back over to the auto shop tomorrow to pick up my beloved Ms. Daisy. I guess I'll have to call the junkyard to come get her because the repair work is going to cost far more than what she's worth. Damn it, I love that car too. We'll have to drop off the piece of shit new car we just bought too, the brakes are grinding on the front passenger side (real nice, they told us when we bought it that the brakes were inspected and fixed, just one of many lies the dealership told us). I think it's about time to shoot the cars and buy a horse LOL

Anyway, we're still trying to decide what to do for our 1 year anniversary. I think we're going to go to Disneyworld. Brian's never been there, and I've been twice, but they've added SO much since I was there in '98. It's going to be a blast, I can't wait.

Have a great week and don't work too hard!

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2 weeks in the hospital has this girl feeling like $h1t

2005-03-02T11:20:00.000-08:00

Well, I've been away again, sorry. I just got out of the hospital again yesterday after a 2 week stay. Nothing throws you out of your groove more than being in the hospital. Today has been one of those major downer days, being out of the normal routine, still not well, and second guessing myself on all the decisions I've made about moving, getting back into nursing, etc. Hopefully this is just a one day passing feeling.

Anyway, hope things are well for everyone. I will try and catch up on everyone's blogs as soon as possible.

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Sorry I've been away...crazy weeks!!

2005-02-09T10:47:00.000-08:00

I hope everybody is doing well. I've been really bad about updating here and responding to everyone else's blogs, so please forgive me *puppy dog eyes*

Brian's job is going awesome, and mine is going well too. Unfortunately, I had to experience the patient side of my floor from Friday until yesterday. What I can say is that my fellow nurses on my floor are amazing, that is bar none the best care I have ever received in any hospital. I must make sure I send some candies or something to them as a thank you. It also helped me realize how much of a difference I really can make as a nurse, and makes me even more enthusiastic about my job. I have never felt this kind of content feeling working as a nurse before, so maybe, just maybe, I have found where I belong.

Anyway, I'm taking it easy at home today and tomorrow, then working Friday and off the weekend (I love only working 3 12-hour shifts a week).

Does anybody have big plans for Valentine's Day? We don't really have anything planned for the weekend, just kinda kick back and relax...maybe go out to our favorite dance club.

Anyway, not too much else to report right now. Hope everyone's week is going great, don't work too hard.

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First day at our new jobs...

2005-01-24T18:27:00.000-08:00

Well, day 1 is over and it went well. Brian is really happy with the place he's at, it's a family run business with about 100 total employees. They're a well established company, have been around here for many years. My first day was good too, just your basic first day orientation fun stuff *yawn*. But it feels SOOOOO good to finally be done with that stupid company I was at, that was a total waste of my time to be there.

Brian has been sick the past couple days, I think he's got a bit of the flu or some tummy bug. Hopefully he'll be feeling better for his second day at work. I get to do more exciting orientation tomorrow and Wednesday.

We had a nice weekend, had his celebration dinner Friday night and Saturday went shopping. I had to get another shot for my migraine Saturday night, that is so frustrating. I don't know why they're coming so frequent but hopefully I can get some resolution soon. Sunday we spent most of the day with my family at a local bar and grill playing pool. That's quickly becoming our Sunday ritual, $5 pool from 11-4. Split that 6 ways and you have a damn cheap activity.

Anyway, not too much else to report right now. Mom's staying with us a couple days so that I can use her car until our other one gets fixed. It's nice having her and her little ankle biters here. :)

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OH YEAH, HAPPY DANCE DAY!!!!!!!

2005-01-20T14:58:00.000-08:00

Brian just got the call from the company he interviewed with a few weeks ago...HE GOT THE JOB!!!!! *HAPPY DANCE* I am SO proud of him!!! OMG, I am so damn happy for him and so proud :) He starts on Monday at 8am, and I start my new job on Monday at 8am. A fresh, new start for us, YESYESYESYESYES!!!!

This company he'll be working for is a smaller company, custom office supplies so he has plenty of experience in that industry, very much a family type run environment. Just a perfect opportunity for him. God I love him.

OK, I need to stop spinning on my head and breakdancing like a fool and figure out where we're going to eat for dinner.

OH HAPPY DAY!!!!

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Howdy Ya'll...

2005-01-18T14:21:00.000-08:00

Hope everyone is having a good week. I had to go in today and get my employment physical done and get my schedule for next week's orientation. Tomorrow is my mom's birthday so we're taking her out for dinner. Other than that I have to take my CPR class Thursday and the weekend is free. I got to see my dog this last weekend, it was so fun spending the day with him. He lives with my ex so luckily I have maintained a good relationship with him so I can see the dog whenever I want.

Not too much else to report, just wanted to pop on and say hi. Hope everyone had a great weekend and is having a good week.

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Got an official job offer yesterday...

2005-01-13T10:13:00.000-08:00

Finally! I got a call yesterday from a nearby hospital, they offered me the job officially. This is a RN position so I'm both excited and nervous. I've been out of nursing for 7 years so I know I have a lot of re-learning and new learning with medications ahead of me. I can't believe I'm getting back in to it. I mean, I loved working with the patients, but I thought I had permanently changed my career focus to more of a I.T. focus. Guess taking a plunge can be a good thing, eh?

I am also waiting to hear on another job I interviewed for, she said I was a finalist for it. Now, if I get offered that job, what do I do? It's a business analyst position with a healthcare I.T. company. Ugh.

Brian is still waiting to hear on a couple of jobs. I'm keeping fingers, toes and everything else crossed for him. I know he'll get the right job soon, I have complete faith in him.

Anyway, that's about it for now. Hope everyone is having a great week.

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Happy Hump Day...

2005-01-12T11:19:00.000-08:00

Hope everyone is having a great day. It's a quiet day around here...we're having Mom over for dinner this evening and just hanging out. And yes, we're STILL waiting on our stuff from the movers...I forsee a call to the attorney very soon.

Anyway, here's a funny my cousin sent me called the Viagra Wife's Diary...enjoy!!

This is the private diary of a Viagra housewife...
Day 1 Just celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary with not much to celebrate.
When it came time to re-enact our wedding night, he locked himself in the bathroom and cried.

Day 2 Today, he says he has a big secret to tell me. He's impotent,he says, and he wants me to be the first to know. Why doesn't he tell me>something I don't know! I mean, he actually thinks I haven't noticed.

Day 3 This marriage is in trouble. A woman has needs. Yesterday, Isaw a picture of Nelson's Column and burst into tears.

Day 4 A miracle has happened! There's a new drug on the market that will fix his 'problem'. It's called Viagra. I told him that if he takesViagra, things will be just like they were on our wedding night. I think this will work. I replaced his Prozac with the Viagra, hoping to lift something other than his mood.

Day 5 What absolute bliss!!

Day 6 Isn't life wonderful but it's difficult to write while he's doing that.

Day 7 This Viagra thing has gone to his head. No pun intended!>Yesterday, at Burger King, the manager asked me if I'd like a Whopper. He thought they were talking about him. But, have to admit it's very nice - I don't think I've ever been so happy.

Day 8 I think he took too many over the weekend. Yesterday, instead of mowing the lawn, he was using his new friend as a weed wacker. I'm also getting a bit sore down there.

Day 9 No time to write. He might catch me.

Day 10 Okay, I admit it. I'm hiding. I mean, a girl can only take so much. And to make matters worse, he's washing the Viagra down with neat whisky! What am I going to do? I feel tacky all over....

Day 11 I'm basically being screwed to death. It's like living with a Black and Decker drill. I woke up this morning hot-glued to the bed. Even my armpits hurt. He's a complete pig.

Day 12 I wish he was gay. I've stopped wearing make-up, cleaning my teeth or even washing but he still keeps coming after me! Even yawning has become dangerous...

Day 13 Every time I shut my eyes, there's a sneak attack! It's like going to bed with a scud missile. I can hardly walk and if he tries that"Oops, sorry" thing again, I'll kill the bastard.

Day 14 I've done everything to turn him off. Nothing is working. I even started dressing like a nun but this just seems to make him morehorny. Help me!

Day 15 I think I'll have to kill him. I'm starting to stick to everything I sit on. The cat and dog won't go near him and our friends don't come over any more. Last night I told him to go and screw himself and he did.

Day 16 The bastard has started to complain about headaches. I hopethe bloody thing explodes. I did suggest he might try stopping the Viagra and going back on Prozac.

Day 17 Switched the pills but it doesn't seem to have made any difference...Christ! Here he comes again!

Day 18 He's back on Prozac. The lazy sod just sits there in front of the TV all day with that remote control in his hand and expects me to do everything for him. What absolute bliss!

Happy Monday...new news for the week...

2005-01-10T14:40:00.000-08:00

Hope everyone had a great weekend...

I had an interview on Friday at one of the local hospitals for a nursing position. They extended an offer to me, contigent on word from my references. I also found out that I'm a strong contender for another position I interviewed for a few weeks ago, and should hopefully have an answer on that one before the end of the month. Since they didn't fill the position before end of fiscal year 04, it has rolled into 05 budget and has to go through that whole approval process again (ugh). Anyway, if they offer me that job I'll probably take it over the nursing job, but who knows. I've turned in my 2 weeks notice to the hell hole I work at now and am SO glad to be leaving!!!

Brian is still waititng to hear back on his interview. He's one of two finalists and they're supposed to let him know early this week sometime. I'm keeping my fingers and toes crossed for him.

Anyway, that's about it for now. Oh yeah, and we're STILL waiting on our stuff to be delivered from the f$$cking movers.

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Happy 2005

2005-01-04T08:46:00.000-08:00

Well, it's the beginning of another new year, and mine starts out with another miserable cold. I hope that's not a sign of the year to come LOL. We're still waiting for our stuff from the movers, which won't be here until Friday at the earliest. Our bed will arrive on Monday so right now we're sleeping on an air mattress (nothing like roughing it, eh?).

Anyway, we're enjoying it and the beautiful cold weather (heehee). Last I heard, they were calling for 1/2-1 inch of ice today, followed by snow. What better way to introduce my California man to Kansas weather LMAO. He's been a trooper though and seems to be happy to be here as well.

Hope everyone had a great New Year's. Stay safe, have a wonderful 2005 and know that the two popsickles here in KS love ya'll.

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We finally made it...

2004-12-30T07:09:00.000-08:00

Good grief, if things could NOT go according to plan more than this week, I don't know how. We were planning on leaving CA late Monday morning, but thanks to the IDIOT movers, we didn't get to leave until 10:30 Monday night. They were supposed to be there between 8-10am, then they called and said it would be 9-11 am. OK fine, I can deal with that. Then they call and say a truck has broke down and ask us if we can wait until Tuesday. Um, NO!! So they say that they'll be there around lunchtime or shortly thereafter. Ugh. THEN some mover calls and says they're on the way and will be there between 3-5pm. OK, I'm more than a little ticked by now. So Brian is on the phone, ripping some new assholes to these idiots. Now, in the process, the mover who called never showed up and the dispatcher we had been in contact with had no idea who had called us. Well, long story short, the dispatcher himself came and loaded up our stuff, got there after 8pm and finished around 10pm. Needless to say, we're getting compensated for this BS. I've never seen worse business practice in my life.

Anyway, we got to Santa Rosa, NM Tuesday night. Got up in the morning and had no hot water. Turns out nobody did, so we got compensated for that. Went to breakfast and waited about an hour for our order to be taken and get our food. We finally got into KC at 10pm last night and I slept like a log. Today we go sign the lease for the apartment, Brian has an interview, and then of course shopping for a bed!

Is it Friday yet???

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Merry Christmas!!

2004-12-24T11:20:00.000-08:00

This has been such a fast moving year, but a great one. Sure there were the bumps, like losing jobs, medical problems, etc...but that is overshadowed by all the good things that happened...marrying my Brian, LepCon, making new friends, strengthening relationships with old friends. Through it all, you all were there, and I thank you for that. I hope each and every one of you have a wonderful Christmas, and may the new year bring you everything you wish for.

Happy Holidays!

Ugh...

2004-12-22T18:43:00.000-08:00

Damn sinus infections and stomach flu *mad*

It figures that I would come down with this crap the week of Christmas, the week when I need to finish up my packing. Thankfully the packing is just about finished, just need to wait on some of the kitchen stuff so I have something to cook with Saturday. Christmas shopping is done, and the tree is about the only thing still up in my bare living room :)

Hope everyone is enjoying their week and ready for the holidays. I wish all of you the very best this holiday season and be safe.

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Great Pyro night with all our friends...

2004-12-19T10:50:00.000-08:00

Last night was our last Pyro gig for a while, because of the move. It was so awesome seeing the old gang there again, hanging out, being the "front row groupies" that we used to be. It brought back the great memories of past shows, and seeing and talking to everyone was just great. Tracy, you almost brought me to tears dammit. Worry not, we are already making plans to fly back out for the next Pyro show and see ya'll. I'm going to miss you guys, but we're all just a phone call or email away. To all you guys...Cherie, Lisle, Freddie, Tracy, Karen, Cathy, Neal, Robin, Bob, Carol, Caleb, Aaron, Dario, Brian, Thanks for the great memories. Until next time, and there WILL be a next time!

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Almost outta here...

2004-12-16T09:45:00.000-08:00

Just 3 1/2 more hours and I'm out of here! Then comes the long flights...1 hr 15 minutes to Las Vegas (where I would like to remain), then almost 3 hours to KC. Oh well, it's all good, I get to see my family and harass them.

My cousin sent this to me yesterday and it's so true. It's called Soulmate, and I dedicate this to all my friends here and to my Thong Boy:

A girl asked a guy if he thought she was pretty, He
said...no.
She asked him if he would want to be with her
forever....and he said no.
She then asked him if she were to leave would he
cry, and once again he replied with a no.
She had heard enough. As she walked away, tears
streaming down her face
The boy grabbed her arm and said....
You're not pretty you're beautiful.
I don't want to be with you forever. I NEED to be
with you forever!
And I wouldn't cry if you walked away...I'd die...

Countdown to move: T-minus 9 days and counting...

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Pet peeves...

2004-12-15T08:23:00.000-08:00

OK, today seems like a good day to discuss pet peeves.

One of my big ones: people who are chronically late coming in to work, especially when there is a client meeting. This guy I'm working with has been late every time he's to meet me in the morning, he was late for one of our meetings with the client (NOT a good impression), and now today, he's almost an hour late coming in the office. No phone call, nothing. He asked me to be here close to 7:30, I was here at 7:40...it's now almost 8:30 and no sign. GRRRR

Anyway, let this post be a "release your frustration" post and share your pet peeves. It's just time for that mid-week bitch :)

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2004-12-13T20:00:00.000-08:00

I wanted to post this picture, I found it in my archives and I just love it...(LOVE YOU JULIA!!)

On the road again...

2004-12-13T13:31:00.000-08:00

Oh how I hope this is my last week of traveling. I have been doing the "road warrior" career for over 3 years now, and to say I'm burned out is putting it mildly, to say the least. If I never see another security checkpoint again and those TSA agents with their little wands, it'll be just fine with me. It was a such a perfect career choice when I was in my first marriage, because we wanted to be away from each other anyway, and this gave me my much needed freedom. Now I have someone I can't wait to come home to, and to be away from him 3-4 days out of the week is torture. Only a few more weeks and I get to say good riddance to this job and this way of life...THANK GOODNESS!!

I let my cousin know that we're moving back to KC in a couple weeks, and she's really excited. I'm excited too, I can't wait to be able to hang out with my family again. She's starting school next month to get her CNA certificate and then will start school for her RN in the fall, which makes me so proud, just like a proud mother hen. I can help tutor her through it which I love to do (even though I know she'll do awesome).

Speaking of RN, I had a call Friday from a hospital about an RN position. I'm going to hopefully set up an interview with them while I'm in town Friday. Since I've been out of nursing for a few years, it's a bit harder to find a nursing job, but one never knows what will pop up.

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'Twas the night before Dog-Mas

2004-12-11T20:09:00.000-08:00

I got this and thought it was so cute...I can't wait to get a puppy!

Twas the night before Dog-Mas, when all through the pound not a puppy was yelping, or playing around; our leashes were hung by our kennels with care, in hopes that St. Bernard would soon find us there; Chihuahuas were curled up, all snug in their beds, while visions of doggie-treats danced in their heads; Max in his collar, on somebody’s lap, had tucked in his tail for a midwinter’s nap.

When outside the room there arose such a clatter, my ears perked right up to hear what was the matter. Away to the window I jumped up with glee, and barked at the shadows that were cast by a tree. The glow from the moon changed night into day, and started me thinking, “Woof, woof! Time to play!”

When, what with my puppy-dog eyes did I see, but a splendid dog-sled, led by doggies like me, with a regal furred driver commanding, not stern. I yelped to the others, “That must be St. Bern!” More rapid than greyhounds our saviors they came, and we barked and we howled, and called them by name: “There’s Duchess! There’s King! Fat Chance, and bare Buffy! On Fido! On Scooter! On, Rover and Scruffy! Go by the hydrant and run past those trees! Nothing can stop you, not even some fleas!”

As puppies at play chase after a stick and race to their masters so lively and quick, so out in the field his canines all flew, catching the Frisbees, that St. Bernard threw. And then in an instant, I heard at the door the scratching and clawing of each little paw. As I pulled in my nose, and was turning around, through the door St. Bernard came in with a bound. He was dressed all in fur, from his head to his tail, his wood cask adorned with an icing of hail; a bag of chew-toys he had brought in with him, and his mouth was turned up in what looked like a grin.

His eyes how they twinkled! His ears flopped, how merry! His coat shone like crystal, his nose like a cherry! His big sloppy mouth was drawn up like a bow, and the fur on his chin was as white as the snow. The stump of a bone he held tight in his teeth, and his collar encircled his neck like a wreath. He had a large face and a furry, round belly that shook when he barked, like a bowl full of jelly. He was fluffy and plump, a big, cuddly old pooch, and I laughed when I saw him and gave him a smooch. A wink of his eye and a wag of his tail; we knew right away we’d have homes, without fail.

He howled not a howl, but went straight to his deed, and took down our leashes that soon we would need. He opened the door, and families stood there, with children, all smiling, and much love to spare. He leapt to his sled, to his team gave a call, and away they all flew as if chasing a ball. But I heard him exclaim as he chewed on a bone: “HAPPY DOG-MAS TO ALL AND TO ALL A GOOD HOME!”

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Second interview and back home next week...

2004-12-09T18:09:00.000-08:00

I had my second phone interview today with the hospital back home, and I don't want to jinx myself but I think it went well. They want to meet me face to face next Friday, so I'm going to plan to fly directly from northern CA to KC next Thursday night and stay at my mom's house. They're going to try and schedule the time for Friday morning so that gives Mom and I the whole afternoon together, and then she and I will both fly back out here to CA so she can spend Christmas with us. WOO HOO!!!

I'm SO ready to be done with the job I'm at now. There's nothing more annoying than some young dork who just got promoted, and thinks he has to throw his weight around and act like some big boss. Well, sorry CHILD, this woman has more work and life experience than you, and just because you've been with this hoity-toity company longer than me doesn't mean a damn thing to me. Try it with me, and I will pound your big brownnosing butt into the ground. That's the problem with companies like this; you have to be a great butt-kisser and backstabber to move up in the company...not for me, thanks.

OK, off my soap box for now :)

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More Interviews to go...

2004-12-08T10:58:00.000-08:00

OK, so I got another call from the hospital back home, they want to do a second phone interview tomorrow afternoon. WOOHOO!!! I may have to fly back for a face to face but that's fine with me. Brian is supposed to hear back on an interview he had sometime today.

Otherwise, it's just another doldrum day, not much going on. We're both just finalizing our decision on our apartment for back home and getting everything else in place.

Hope everyone is having a great week and getting your Christmas shopping done. We put our tree up Saturday night and got the kids' gifts wrapped. I love our little fiber optic tree, it sure beats having to string lights. I just have a couple more things to get and I'm finished with my shopping, thank goodness.

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Sunday, Rainy Sunday...

2004-12-05T16:13:00.000-08:00

My favorite kind of day, cold and raining...the perfect kind of day to curl up under Great-Grandma's homemade quilt and drink a cup of hot tea, while watching my Chiefs FINALLY win a game. I love cozy days like this. We're going to put up the Christmas tree and hopefully get the kids' gifts wrapped.

I'm going to take an extra day to recuperate from the surgery before returning to work. So it looks like tomorrow will be a work from home day and Tuesday I'll be back in northern CA. Only a few more weeks and this will all be finished. Brian and I have found an apartment in Kansas City, and he can secure some temp work which will likely turn into a permanent position. I have had my interviews and can secure temp work as well if needed until a permanent position comes up. We are so excited to have this fresh start coming our way.

I found this in my inbox from another friend and just had to post it...it's funny:

1. Put both lids of the toilet up and add 1/8 cup of pet shampoo to the water in the bowl.
2. Pick up the cat and soothe him while you carry him towards the bathroom.
3. In one smooth movement, put the cat in the toilet and close both lids. You may need to stand on the lid.
4. The cat will self agitate and make ample suds. Never mind the noises that come from the toilet, the cat is actually enjoying this.
5. Flush the toilet three or four times. This provides a "power-wash" and rinse.
6. Have someone open the front door of your home. Be sure that there are no people between the bathroom and the front door.
7. Stand behind the toilet as far as you can, and quickly lift both lids.
8. The cat will rocket out of the toilet, streak through the bathroom, and run outside where he will dry himself off.
9. Both the commode and the cat will be sparkling clean.
Sincerely,
The Dog

Have a wonderful week, keep in touch and stay safe.

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